A Kinder and Gentler Family
Citizenship, generosity, manners.
Where do we learn them? Home? School? Church? I
think most of us would say home. Then, why is it - that when we are
at home, our mouths and manners are at their lowest?
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You know what I'm talking about. Your
son is sarcastic and mouthy. Or, your daughter complains and
procrastinates before she obeys. How are we supposed to feel loved,
treasured and special when behaviors are lousy in our homes?
Hey, and moms - we aren't blameless either! When was the last time we used
the words dumb or stupid even if only aimed at a TV?
It's not surprising we've slacked off the
way the world is today. It's so common to forget about being kind
and gentle. People should assume we're only joking right?
WRONG! I urge you to change the way you think.
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Let's not allow our children to belittle
each other. Let's expect respect, kindness to others, cooperation,
promptness, dependability and sensitivity in our families. Let's
stress character education in our homes. Because we can see how
outrageous characters can get!
No matter what size your family is, a
selfless attitude goes miles in maintaining a kind and gentle home.
Things will go smoother and more enjoyable for everyone without all the
bickering and picking up of hurt feelings.
We need to remember that our houses
shouldn't be war zones - but havens from the trials of the world.
Let's wake up and soften all of our tongues. You'll be amazed at
just how far the language has gotten. I think it's time we all do a
little house cleaning, wouldn't you say?
About the
Author:
Dionna Sanchez creates a haven for her
family in Boise, Idaho.
She is Editor of Emphasis On Moms at http://www.EmphasisOnMoms.com/
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